A Women's Rights...

Ok- a sorta non political rant I promise, but non the less, a rant-

Many of you if not all of you should know by now that I am extremely pro-life/anti-abortion! I have seen both the psychological (from working in a pregnancy center AND hands on experience with friends) and spiritual down fall and pain abortion has caused!

Let me just make one thing clear- abortion is terminating a life- you are telling one of your children that they aren't worth it, that you don't love them or want them... people say "oh it was an accident I didn't mean to get pregnant" or "it's not the right time" well than maybe you should have been more careful. There are NUMEROUS ways to avoid pregnancy and many if not all of these ways have been made easy and often times cheep for anyone to obtain... There is no accident... and definitely no justification- for murdering an unborn child.

 That "weird feeling" most women get after having an abortion, that throws many of them into depression, which has often pushed women to suicide- is the lost connection to there child that was growing inside of them... The pain and sorry a mother who has miscarried feels, is not just from the mental loss of her child, but also the physical disconnection from her child... A mother who has had an abortion- will feel that same disconnection, and they have to live with knowing that they cut the tie themselves(this has lead to multiple suicides). That feeling of knowing someone is there, to suddenly being alone again. Knowing and feeling, that the little being that had become a part of you, is now gone... lost.

Women- your only "rights" to your body, are to say no to sex, or use protection, or birth control! But trying to take the life of another human being into your own hands, is you trying to play god! And I understand that there are medical reasons to have an abortion- the baby isn't gonna make it so save the mother at least kind of deals- I am not speaking to y'all- I Am speaking to the women who "just made a mistake" and aren't willing to pay the price for their actions! Allowing a woman to get an abortion because she "made a mistake" is like letting a murder go because he said "I didn't mean to pull the trigger" or giving a drunk driver his license back after killing someone else in an car accident... I don't even have to touch the Religious reasons for not allowing abortion to make my point. As human beings- with a heart and soul- the idea of killing a growing child should not be so easily accepted... There is a reason abortions send women into depression- because it is not natural for our bodies and minds to accept- and it never should be...

To the MOTHERS who are terrified, lean on your loved ones. Don't shut people out and try and do it on your own- Woman who get pregnant and feel alone in it, are the ones most likely to have an abortion AND crash into a devastating depression...

To the FATHERS of an unborn "accidental" child- do not leave your girl- You were apart of the making of this beautiful baby as well and I promise you, she is just as afraid if not more afraid than you are... Even if you barely know the girl, own up to your actions and take care of her and your future child...

To the scared PARENTS of a pregnant daughter or "soon to be father" son- don't tell them "you are on your own". They are terrified and probably more willing to listen to you and accept that they need you now more than ever. That is your grandchild- I realize the pain and disappointment you must be feeling, but please imagine the feel they are going through as well... No matter how old we are- we always need our parents...

To the CHURCH Families, who have a young pregnant couple, or a single pregnant woman- support them and her... Remind them/her that they have a family outside of blood relation... That they have mental and physical support... That they will be in your prayers...

I have known to many women to take their own lives, and the lives of their children, because they are afraid and alone... Because they felt like no one wanted them, like their lives where over... a Child should never be a negative thing- the timing may be unexpected, but the result is the same- a new beautiful creation from God, that will need support and a family... Be that family, be that support...

To everyone, not just the pregnant mothers- Think before you act people- because all actions have consequences...

It takes two to make a baby, but it takes a strong community to raise the child equally as strong...

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