Live, Love, and Line Dance

Ok- a sorta non political rant I promise, but non the less, a rant- Many of you if not all of you should know by now that I am extremely pro-life/anti-abortion! I have seen both the psychological (from working in a pregnancy center AND hands on experience with friends) and spiritual down fall and pain abortion has caused! Let me just make one thing clear- abortion is terminating a life- you are telling one of your children that they aren't worth it, that you don't love them or want them... people say "oh it was an accident I didn't mean to get pregnant" or "it's not the right time" well than maybe you should have been more careful. There are NUMEROUS ways to avoid pregnancy and many if not all of these ways have been made easy and often times cheep for anyone to obtain... There is no accident... and definitely no justification- for murdering an unborn child.  That "weird feeling" most women get after having an abortion, that thro...

Don't you just love people who call you a bad or boring person because you don't like to hide anything from your husband because you try and always be 100% honest with him and tell him everything even when you know he won't like it? I mean isn't that what we ask of them? To always tell us the truth and be honest? To earn our trust? You enjoy flirting with, drinking with, and dancing with guys who aren't your fiancé or husband- good for you- but don't come to me and expect me to lie for you or expect me to join you and lie to MY husband. I always tell people- if you don't want Dante to know don't tell me... I will keep a secret literally from the entire world- excluding my husband- because if I want him to be 100% honest and open with me at all times I have to give him the same respect back... As a daughter of Christ, how does it look to a non-believer who knows I am married, yet sees me flirting with and dancing closely with men who are not my husba...

Life is too short for angry and/or unspoken words. Our world can turn upside down in a heartbeat... Don't assume your words don't hurt, and don't assume your loved ones know what they mean to you. Life isn't easy, and often we have to go out of our comfort zone and just have a little faith... Don't live in your regrets... Don't let the sun go down on hate filled words, and don't let those whom you care about ever think for a moment that you don't love them. Our time here is Limited and we need to learn to make the most of it; make a change, save a life. One of the best ways to show love to those around you is telling them the truth... telling them of Christ, and His love for us, and his Gift to man. Open the door to them, so that they may have a chance, and have Faith that the Lord will work on their hearts, and help them step through. Plant the seed... you never know when the slightest sight of concern or love can save a life...   "In the morni...

I cannot count how many times I've been pissed off by my own generation! I mean come on y'all! We are lazy spoiled good for nothing delinquents who take all we have for granted! We have freaking hover boards because apparently we cannot walk anymore… (Read that with as much sass as you’d like). And I am not excluding myself from this- as much as it shames me to say- I am just as at fault here as the rest of you! Let’s start with respect- What happened to respecting our elders and each other for that matter? What happened to opening doors for girls, or dressing modestly and not in your underwear in public?(can't blame a guy for looking at you, when you have it all on display). And what happened to saying “yes sir” and “yes ma’am”? OR helping a little old lady in the Walmart parking lot to get her 24 pack of soda into her car… What happened to being decent people? All we do now is complain that it’s “to far away” or “too heavy” or “too difficult”! We only think of ou...

Have you ever felt so lost and alone, and you think you found the answer to end all of that and it just ends up disappointing you to? Ever just get left feeling like you are the problem? You are the mistake? Not what you experienced, not the situation you got put in, you yourself? To be completely honest with you, that is how I have felt the last few months- like no matter what I do or how hard I try- I am never good enough, I can never get it right. People see my life from the outside looking in and problem think I have it perfect- that there couldn't be a single thing wrong. And I cannot deny that I have been very blessed through out my life. I mean I am 19, I have amazing parents, an awesome brother, a loving husband, and a place to call home... yet somehow I still always feel locked out... Like everyone is trying to tell me to come inside, but I lost my key and no one will open the door... I feel like I am pounding on the door, hearing there joyful laughter and happy...

Ok so I'm probably about to piss a couple people off but I don't really care at this point. I am done listening to people complaining about tattoos & piercings AND I am just as tired of all the tatted up and pierced folk getting all defensive about it! To each his own i know and agree but still we all need to have our limits. To an extend both kinds of people have crossed the line. Now let me make this clear before y'all start calling me a hater or claim I am favoring one side over the other- I love tattoos and want one of my own AND I also love piercings(i married a guy with both sooo yeah). But the truth of the matter is some tattoos and some piercings can screw up your career opportunities and some just make people uncomfortable! I mean lets be honest here- some people have some very crude, disgusting, and/or vulgar tattoos! I mean come on people be a little more respectful here! If you MUST have it put it somewhere you can cover up- but also think of it this way...

Growing up I pretty much constantly lived a lie... I told people what they wanted to hear, I showed them what they wanted to see, and I made myself who they wanted me to be. Very few people I would say "knew me" and that is even a stretch. My own family, the people who should know me better than anyone since they lived with me and raised me, didn't even know half of the things I had been going through or doing. Lying was such a huge part of my life that it was second nature to me- I lied as if it were breathing- even when I didn't want to. But before I knew it a new lie was coming out of my mouth.  This was partially due to the fact that I was scared of people getting close to me or judging me. I had gotten myself into some bad situations during my Highschool years and I trusted no one. I also had moved a lot and the constant "get attached than forced to be detached" caused me to just want to be alone.  And than everything changed... Spring 20...